why loving 2 people is called cheating

They say the greatest feeling is the feeling of love. When you are in love, everything around you turns beautiful. You feel passionate, you remain happy, you start believing in forgiveness and you start living in your present.

But if a person is in love with two people at a time then everything turns bad in an audience eye.

Believe it or not but falling in love with someone is very easy.

So why people start hating a person who loves more than one human? After all he/she does not hate anyone; he/she is just spreading love. Isn’t that we are all been taught right from our childhood, spread love (When I say love don’t mix it with sex).

And you don’t love someone because you want to, it just happens. You meet a stranger; you try to be nice to that person because that is what is being inculcated in you by your parents. If you like a person; you talk more and once that comfort level enters you start tell about yourself. And once you start telling about yourself you actually start rediscovering yourself and get to know few new things about yourself and feel amazed. At that point you realize that this girl/boy actually helped you knowing yourself better (which is partially true). And the love factor starts entering your soul. After that you both talk talk talk and finally realize that you are in love.

Now if you are in love for the first time; its wow but if you are in love for the second time and there is one person already in your life; in that case boy is an asshole and girl is a bitch.

But why! Why people say such a statement? And who made this rule of loving just one person?

Can’t a person love two people at a same time in a same way?

And if he/she does then is it their fault?

I Forgive All

I forgive all

They say if you ask people to choose between money, fame, power and peace of mind, most of them choose peace of mind. But unfortunately all of us know how to get money, fame and power and very few know how to achieve peace.

We feel peace when we meditate in morning but the moment we go to office or college or school that peace goes away as well. We feel peace when we spend some quality time with our loved ones but we can’t do that all the time. We feel peace when we sit in a temple and worship god but we can’t sit there 24 * 7.

All the ways we know to get peace are temporary in nature but there is one more thing through which we encounter peace and that is by forgiving people.

Whenever we forgive someone we feel light, we feel as if a big heavy burden has been removed from our head and we feel relax.

Forgiveness leads to peace. It’s a cycle you see; forgiveness, peace, happiness, and love, all comes in a chain. You achieve one and rest will follow automatically.

Don’t you feel beautiful went you forgive someone. Don’t you feel as if you are blessed and at the same time have the power to bless?

Create an attitude of “its okay”. No matter what other do to you, just feel its okay…. Because other can give you only what they have, so it’s always okay to accept things given by others and it’s really okay to forgive them

Don’t we forgive people whom we love? Doesn’t a mother forgive her child, doesn’t a child forgive its mother, and doesn’t a friend forgive a friend? So why can’t we love everyone and forgive all.

Just try to do it. You will feel the magical power inside you; the power of blessing people and helping them. It will make you self satisfied.

And once you forgive someone there are no places for grudges or grievances and then there is only place which will be for love.  

This world looks beautiful when there is no hatred in your heart.

Once you are able to forgive others, you can start forgiving yourself as well because when we can forgive others then why not our own self. Forgiving yourself means recovering from your past. Whatever bad we did in our past was just a mistake and it’s okay to do mistake. So forgive yourself, let your past go and create new stories.

As you start forgiving yourself there will be no regrets, no revenge, you will feel free like a bird and you are left with only happiness. Your soul will start healing.

So forgive yourself and all the people who did something wrong to you. Let them go and make your own self free and independent in real term.

I request you all, if you really liked it then don’t just stop after reading, please implement it as well. Take it as an experiment and do it for a week and you will notice the difference.

And you feel good after that then make it your habit.

Why are we all different?

Sometimes I just wonder there are more than 6 billion people in our world, everyone has a different voice, everyone has a different face and everyone has a different and unique soul.

How can this be possible? Yes of course it is. We can all see that. And when we talk about possibilities we talk about god. It is god who created all of us and was too kind to give us a unique face with a unique soul.

But the question is why? Why god made all of us so different? Even twin siblings containing almost similar face has different soul and therefore are different from inside.

So why are we all different from inside? If we would have been same, we could have understood each other better, there could have been fewer complications and there could have been no wounded soul.

But it is not that way and the answer is still unfolded…. Why…. why are we all so different from each other?

Maybe god has a bigger plan for us than what we have for ourselves. God created us differently because he/she (I don’t know why people think that god is male) wanted us to do different things. If all of us would have had the same soul and the same mind (even if not the same face) we would have ended up in thinking same and then how all the unique and different inventions made could have been possible. And how we would have chosen our soul mate if all the souls are same.

So you see… god made all of us different, so that, we can think differently, we can act differently and above all, we can dream differently. And of course we are different, so that, we can choose our one and only soul mate among billions of people.

And you know it is only human mind that can dream and can think about his/ her existence.

Every one of us has a purpose in life. So just dream and make it your destiny because that is why you are different and that is why god has created you.

When you said I love you

Before reading this story/poem please first read the story/poem I wrote before this.

That was a beautiful poem but I’m sorry I don’t love you. I see you as my friend, a good friend.

Don’t be sorry, said the boy. As I said its okay if you don’t.

Next day the girl entered the class but took another seat. The entire day passed but they dint talk and none of them asked why. Second day passed, and then the third and the fourth but they dint talk.

On fifth day boy when to her and said why are we not talking and girl said because things are not same now. Boy just smiled and left.

From that day onward they just use to smile and say hi whenever they encounter an eye contact. They started sitting at different seats. The boy always use to sit at last bench and watch her most of the time and by being far from her he actually came to know her better and with each passing day he loved her even more than what he did in his pervious day.

A month passed and One day when she entered the class she found him missing. First she thought he might be late. One lecture passed, then the other but he dint came, so she thought he might be absent but still she felt uneasy, so finally she asked the guy sitting next to her row that why he dint came and he said that the boy had an accident. After hearing the words she felt as if her world has ended.

He was told for a week bed rest and as he was resting in his house and not in hospital and she couldn’t go to meet him, so the only option left to her was to wait for him to come to college.

She uses to come to college every day, look at the class room but never attend any. She just sits on a corridor respond to people who talk to him and go back home.

For two weeks she followed the same routine. After the second week when she looked at the class room she found him sitting on his very own last bench.

She took a deep breath, smiled, walked fast towards him, holds his hand and said we need to talk, follow me.

They sat on the very same bench; she kept on holding his hand and said...

When you said I you love…

You were there every night, in my dream

We were walk on the road and sharing single choco vanilla ice cream…

When you said I you love…

My lips were dying to say yes

But I said no because I had a lot of stress…

I was all your at that very moment

I still remember our first meeting, even the smell of your scent…

I wanted to kiss you, huge you and be your forever

Please forgive me baby, I promise I’ll leave you never…

When you said I you love…

That was the most beautiful moment of my life

Let’s live together and allow me to be your wife…

When you said I love you…

I felt that I’m the most beautiful girl in the whole universe

But after hurting you I felt as if I’m the worse…

I knew you were totally in love with me

But I don’t know what happened, why I pretended not to see…

Fear of loosing you started coming in my mind

But by actually saying no I lost you, I was so blind…

When you said you I love you…

You also said I will love you even if you don’t

Today I say I love you and baby its only you whom I want…

Now when I say I love you

I mean to say I want to spend my entire life with you

And if you die, my life will also end with you…

When i say i love you

There was a boy, don’t ask the name because that doesn’t matter. He had a lot of friends but still use to feel alone sometimes. One fine day he heard a voice.

May I come in sir? He turned his head towards the class door and he was amazed by what he saw. Yellow suit, a slim fair body carrying it, black long hair, black eyes, one hand on a hand bag and other hand half in the air and pink lips asking permission once again – may I come in sir?

Come in (a voice gave her the permission to enter). She walks; step one, two, and three and sat adjacent to him. He got so nervous that he dint utter a word. But from that day onward yellow became his favorite color.

May I come in sir? Her second day in college and she was late again but still managed to get in (Teacher was a male, you see). Fortunately there was only one seat vacant, so she again sat next to the boy. This time he was not nervous because he has already scolded himself for missing the pleasure of not talking to her yesterday.

Hi! That’s how their conversation started and from that day onward they talk everyday, they shared secretes, they shared dreams, they laughed together, they studied together and did everything what two good friends do.

The boy knew that he is falling in love with her but dint know what love is, so he was totally confused.

One day they were sitting on a bench. While girl was reading a text book, boy was simply watching her, watching her hair floating in air, her eyes blinking after every few seconds, her lips which were moving in different directions, her tongue touching her lips after every few minutes and making her lips wet and shine, her hands holding book and at that very moment he realized that he is totally… totally in love with the girl. So the boy immediately went on his knees, took away her text book from her, holds her hand and said I love you.

The girl was shocked. She dint know what to say. She knew that she is in love with him from the very first day when she sat next to him. She wanted to say yes at that very moment and hug him but instead she said I have never thought about it, we are just friends and what do you mean by saying I love you.

The boy dint know what to say, so he closed his eyes for few seconds and then got up, sat on the bench, kept on holding her hand and said…….     

When I say I love you

I mean to say that I’ll be there every night in your dream

All the troubles would be mine and you’ll only have life’s cream…

I’ll walk with you side by side

We’ll take every step together and become each others guide…

I can travel miles to see your beautiful face

To meet you, to touch you, to feel your warm embrace…

When I say I love you

I mean to say when you came in my life I actually started living

I was atheist but with you in my life in god I actually started believing…

Without you life was just breathing in and out

I want to tell this to everyone I love you and now I want to shout…

You are the only girl I want to seduce

You are perfect to me despite of knowing that you need to reduce…

When I say I love you

I mean to say with you my world become still

Without you I’ll die baby, you are my only pill…

With you life look simple with no game

The only thing I want to change in you is your surname…

With you I want to spend my entire life

I want to see you every morning, I see you as my future wife…

When I say I love you

I mean to say I’m completely in love with you

And even if you don’t I still love you…

I love you ma… I love you dad…

When I was born you where there to hold me

My first moment in this world and your hands were there who rolled me…

You always made me happy, you never made me sad

All I want to say through this poem is, I love you ma, I love you dad…

When I was an infant, you taught me how to walk

I use to say nothing but still you use to talk…

When I was an infant, you use to be my favorite ride

Teaching me how to stand, then watching me from my side…

When I was an infant, you taught how to eat

You taught me how to respect, you told me to touch elder’s feet…

When I was an infant, you taught me how to sit

I became pre pubescence and you taught me how to hit…

When I was a pre pubescence, you always hold me in your arm

I use cry and shout a lot but you always made me calm…

When I was a pre pubescence, I had my first fight

You made me sit around you and taught me wrong and right…

When I was a pre pubescence, you brought me a cycle

I became teenager and you brought me motor cycle…

When I was teenager, you taught me how to shave

I know I was a bad child but you taught me how to behave…

When I was teenager, I had my first girl friend

You said nothing because you know it was a trend…

When I was teenager, you informed about my body change

You told me, when I think about girls why I feel so strange…

When I was teenager, it was my first college day

I remember it was not a winter, but a month of May…

When I was teenager, for the first time you shook my hand

I wanted that moment to remain still, but it went from my fist like sand…

When I was teenager, you were there to scold me

I became adult and you are still there to hold me…

I am an adult now, but still need your support

I am your little child who still loves you a lot…

I want to be your child in all the births I take

I ask for you as my parent in every wish I make…

I love you ma… I love you dad…

You are my love

you are my love, you are my life

you are the girl who'll be my wife...

you are the one, of my dreams

you are vanilla choco nutty ice cream...

you are my angle who can fly

baby please take me there in the sky...

you are my world, the whole universe

when you cry everything seems to be a curse...

world looks beautiful when you are with me

you bring life with you, you see...

i love you, it may sound odd

but when i see you, i see god...

marry me baby, please say yes

be a part of my life and make me bless...

Tears are coming from my eyes

Tears are coming from my eyes

One drop, two and three

I cleared it all but they came back...

I thought of stopping them

I gave instructions to my mind

But the more I tried the more tears came...

My eyes became red and started paining

I pressed them a little and felt relax

But the moment I released my hand they came again...

I put my hand on my forehead

My body got hot nose started weeping

I cleaned tears once again but one drop came again...

After trying hard I finally gave up

I asked the tears why they don’t stop

But they said nothing, nothing at all...

Tears are coming from my eyes...

Tears are coming from my eyes...

It's your birthday...... Marry me......

Birthday makes you happy

Birthday makes you glow….

Let’s get married

Before you say I’m too slow….

Birthday makes you tired

Birthday makes you old….

Please marry me

And wear this ring of gold….

Birthday makes you laugh

Birthday brings you joy….

Happy birthday my love

Marry me, don’t ask why….

Birthday makes you party

Birthday brings you gift….

Let’s live together

And give our life a shift….

Birthday makes you special

Birthday brought us close….

That is the reason

Today I chose to propose….

I'm Happy

I’m happy

I’m feeling happy…

I have no reason

I have no explanation

But yes I’m happy…..

I’m feeling satisfied…

I know something is waiting

I don’t know what

But yes I know it will be mine soon…..

I’m happy…

I have a smile on my face

I have tears in my eyes

And yes I’m happy……

I’m feeling connected…

To whom I don’t know

But yes to someone very special

I’m connected, connected completely……

I’m feeling happy…

My teeth are visible

My eyes shrunk little

Oh yes I’m happy……

I’m feeling success…

My heart says I’m on right direction

Direction to what, I don’t know

But yes success will be mine……

I’m happy…

My cheeks expanded little more

Oh my god I’m blushing now

Yes, yes I’m happy……

I’m feeling abundance…

I’m just about to get whatever I want

What is that I don’t know?

But yes I’ll be abundant……

I’m happy…..

And yes I’m happy……

Oh yes I’m happy…..

Yes, yes I’m happy……!!!!!!!!

Just God and You!!!

People are often unreasonable and self centered,

Forgive them anyways!

If you are honest, People may cheat you,

Be honest anyways!

If you find happiness, people may be jealous,

Be happy anyways!

The good you do today may be forgotten  tomorrow,

Do good anyway!

The people you care for may not appreciate your affection,

Love them anyway!

Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough,

Give your best anyway!

Because in the end, its between You and God. It was never between you and them anyway!!

What is love?

People say love is Unconditional. True love is all about giving. I use to believe in it. I experienced it. I gave whatever good I have. And I even enjoyed it. Giving never cause pain. Giving always makes you feel happy, it makes you feel bliss.

After giving all I have I demanded nothing, I received nothing. Ever time I gave something I felt peace, I felt connected to god. But still there was something that was incomplete, a barrier in the connection. I starting consoling my soul, making it believe that this is love all about. Love is giving. Love is expecting nothing. Love is liberty. Love is freedom. I started feeling satisfied, my soul was heeling now.

But suddenly someone appeared and I fall in love again. I gave all I have but this time I received as well. I was confused. I dint know what to do, I dint know how to receive it or how to value it. I knew love is giving but I dint know that love is receiving. I opened my arms and received everything that was given to me. This was magical – giving and receiving. I felt connected to god again and this time there was no barrier. Our souls were connected.

I demanded nothing still I received. I expected nothing still I got more than that. My love was unconditional may be that’s why I received it in multiples.

Yes love is giving but that is not all. Love is also receiving.

Words

Words

“once spoken cannot be taken back.”

But it’s only words that we have to take someone’s heart away.

Say words because saying is beautiful. Listen words because listening is beautiful. Create words because creating is beautiful. Do it all because words are beautiful.

Words bring the world to children.

Words shape the world: circle, triangle, squares, straight lines and curves.

Words color the world: green, yellow, pink, white, black.

Words make sense: explain, learn, show.

Words make nonsense: cuckoo, pink elephant, yeppy.

Words celebrate: glitter, party, festival.

Words bring joy: sing, dance, laugh, play.

Words bring message to adults: heal, empower, grow, today.

Word….. It’s all about words.