“When something is rare, it’s precious and when it gets abundant, it loses its value”.
Just saying “I love you” to your love one gets boring some times. As your partner get use to those words. So, the effectiveness of those words reduces. I’m not saying don’t express your love, but don’t express it 10 times in a day.
When you here “I love you” from your partner for the first time you are on cloud seven. But that does not happen when you hear the same word for the fiftieth time.
You know, the most beautiful time in a guy’s life is when he does everything and anything to make a girl fall in love with him. And the best moment is when he put all his courage together and proposes a girl and she says “stupid what took you so long to propose”
But as they get into a relationship the above excitement reduces with each passing day. And the reason for the reduction is that when the guy proposed a girl for the first time, it was magical words for her and she felt special; guy repeats the words for the second time, the impact of those words were even more. But the word would not remain magical for the thirtieth time and the she won’t feel any special.
It’s like Law of Marginal Utility
You are thirsty. You drink a sip of water, you feel satisfied. You drink another sip, your satisfaction increases. You drink third sip, you are even more satisfied. But once your thirst is over and then if you drink a sip your satisfaction will reduce and you won’t feel the need of drinking it any more.
The excitement reduces because none of them is doing anything to make each other special.
So my point here is that don’t be straight all the time while saying I love you or while presenting a gift or while asking her for a date. Whenever you do all these things do it as if you are doing it for the first time and in a different manner all the time.
No repetition and you’ll see that your partner is on could seven every time you do something for her/him.
P.S : When I say don’t be straight doesn’t mean I’m saying be diplomatic. And there is no written rule that it’s a boy who has to do all the things to make his girl feel special. It’s a vice-versa thing.
