why loving 2 people is called cheating

They say the greatest feeling is the feeling of love. When you are in love, everything around you turns beautiful. You feel passionate, you remain happy, you start believing in forgiveness and you start living in your present.

But if a person is in love with two people at a time then everything turns bad in an audience eye.

Believe it or not but falling in love with someone is very easy.

So why people start hating a person who loves more than one human? After all he/she does not hate anyone; he/she is just spreading love. Isn’t that we are all been taught right from our childhood, spread love (When I say love don’t mix it with sex).

And you don’t love someone because you want to, it just happens. You meet a stranger; you try to be nice to that person because that is what is being inculcated in you by your parents. If you like a person; you talk more and once that comfort level enters you start tell about yourself. And once you start telling about yourself you actually start rediscovering yourself and get to know few new things about yourself and feel amazed. At that point you realize that this girl/boy actually helped you knowing yourself better (which is partially true). And the love factor starts entering your soul. After that you both talk talk talk and finally realize that you are in love.

Now if you are in love for the first time; its wow but if you are in love for the second time and there is one person already in your life; in that case boy is an asshole and girl is a bitch.

But why! Why people say such a statement? And who made this rule of loving just one person?

Can’t a person love two people at a same time in a same way?

And if he/she does then is it their fault?

I Forgive All

I forgive all

They say if you ask people to choose between money, fame, power and peace of mind, most of them choose peace of mind. But unfortunately all of us know how to get money, fame and power and very few know how to achieve peace.

We feel peace when we meditate in morning but the moment we go to office or college or school that peace goes away as well. We feel peace when we spend some quality time with our loved ones but we can’t do that all the time. We feel peace when we sit in a temple and worship god but we can’t sit there 24 * 7.

All the ways we know to get peace are temporary in nature but there is one more thing through which we encounter peace and that is by forgiving people.

Whenever we forgive someone we feel light, we feel as if a big heavy burden has been removed from our head and we feel relax.

Forgiveness leads to peace. It’s a cycle you see; forgiveness, peace, happiness, and love, all comes in a chain. You achieve one and rest will follow automatically.

Don’t you feel beautiful went you forgive someone. Don’t you feel as if you are blessed and at the same time have the power to bless?

Create an attitude of “its okay”. No matter what other do to you, just feel its okay…. Because other can give you only what they have, so it’s always okay to accept things given by others and it’s really okay to forgive them

Don’t we forgive people whom we love? Doesn’t a mother forgive her child, doesn’t a child forgive its mother, and doesn’t a friend forgive a friend? So why can’t we love everyone and forgive all.

Just try to do it. You will feel the magical power inside you; the power of blessing people and helping them. It will make you self satisfied.

And once you forgive someone there are no places for grudges or grievances and then there is only place which will be for love.  

This world looks beautiful when there is no hatred in your heart.

Once you are able to forgive others, you can start forgiving yourself as well because when we can forgive others then why not our own self. Forgiving yourself means recovering from your past. Whatever bad we did in our past was just a mistake and it’s okay to do mistake. So forgive yourself, let your past go and create new stories.

As you start forgiving yourself there will be no regrets, no revenge, you will feel free like a bird and you are left with only happiness. Your soul will start healing.

So forgive yourself and all the people who did something wrong to you. Let them go and make your own self free and independent in real term.

I request you all, if you really liked it then don’t just stop after reading, please implement it as well. Take it as an experiment and do it for a week and you will notice the difference.

And you feel good after that then make it your habit.