Every one has their own Sanskaar, even a new born baby. When a baby gets 3-4 month older in mother’s womb soul enters his body. And those souls already have some memories from their previous birth. So when a baby is born his body is new but his soul is not.
There are twine born in a family, both are new born but still one cry all the time whereas another remains happy. It’s all because they are thinking, feeling and reacting from what they have experienced in their previous birth.
There are 2 brothers but 1 is extrovert and another is introvert. (It’s all about previous energy)
You think a new born baby is new but no, he has some memory from his early birth positive plus negative and it’s your duty as a parent, as a sibling to heal those negative memories and convert them into positive one.
And those negative memories of child can be healed by praising them and making them realizes what they can do and what they are good at.
Most of the parents complain that there children are introvert, they don’t talk to guests, they don’t have friends. Well if that is the case then why don’t you try to be their friends?
Remember: “If you don’t like something, change it. If you cannot change it, change your attitude. Don’t complain.”
Don’t compare your child with others because he already has suffered a lot in his past and now all he need is love from you.
When you compare your elder son with your younger son, you are actually making the other one feel bad (the child you are not praising) and passively you are creating a difference in their relationship as well.
It’s like natures law. What you give to your children comes back to you – in multiples.
You must be thinking that whatever parents do, they do it to help their child (build good Sanskaar). But there is always a positive way to solve problem.
“It is not necessary that all the diseases have to be cured by bitter medicine.”
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