Friday, July 16, 2010

Quantified Love


Quantified Love

Every couple or every love bird says I love you so much or they says my love for you is increasing or has increased with each passing day and I love you a lot.

Even they start playing mind games in love. Girl asks boy - how much you love me. And boy says it’s raining outside just go and count the drops.

People also compare in love. Girl asks do you love me more than your friends and even parents ask this question from their child, whom do you love more, your dad or mom?

So what I’m trying to say is that love cannot be quantified.

It’s actually acceptability that matters, its acceptability that increases or decreases. Acceptability of your partner, acceptability of his/her habits, acceptability of his/her likes and dislikes and more importantly acceptability of his/her beliefs.

It’s the Acceptability that increases with the passage of time not love. Your love remains constant.

We are in love with a special one but still there are few things we don’t like in him/her. With the passage of time we start liking those things as well and we have started liking it because we accepted their habits. If we are able to accept their habits our compatibility will increases but the love part will remain same.

For the first time when you felt that you are in love with your partner, at that very moment you were in love and no matter whether your acceptance/compatibility increases or decreases your love, your feeling remain same.

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