Friday, December 24, 2010

why loving 2 people is called cheating



They say the greatest feeling is the feeling of love. When you are in love, everything around you turns beautiful. You feel passionate, you remain happy, you start believing in forgiveness and you start living in your present.

But if a person is in love with two people at a time then everything turns bad in an audience eye.

Believe it or not but falling in love with someone is very easy.

So why people start hating a person who loves more than one human? After all he/she does not hate anyone; he/she is just spreading love. Isn’t that we are all been taught right from our childhood, spread love (When I say love don’t mix it with sex).

And you don’t love someone because you want to, it just happens. You meet a stranger; you try to be nice to that person because that is what is being inculcated in you by your parents. If you like a person; you talk more and once that comfort level enters you start tell about yourself. And once you start telling about yourself you actually start rediscovering yourself and get to know few new things about yourself and feel amazed. At that point you realize that this girl/boy actually helped you knowing yourself better (which is partially true). And the love factor starts entering your soul. After that you both talk talk talk and finally realize that you are in love.

Now if you are in love for the first time; its wow but if you are in love for the second time and there is one person already in your life; in that case boy is an asshole and girl is a bitch.

But why! Why people say such a statement? And who made this rule of loving just one person?

Can’t a person love two people at a same time in a same way?

And if he/she does then is it their fault?

5 comments:

Unknown said...

It's true thet since our childhood we r taught to love & care.....
that's what we learn and try to do, but while caring for someone sometimes we get that care in return...
and we start thinking & taking that care as love. which actually it's not coz only care is not love rather "Care is a part of Love"
So. what i believe is you can't love 2 people at a time it's all abt care that there.
and once you r clear wid difference b/w care &extra care(LOVE) u'll realize

Unknown said...

and once you r clear wid difference b/w care &extra care(LOVE) u'll realize that u can't love 2 people at a time that Extra wali only comes 4 dat special someone....
so...
"No 2 people at a time in life wid same feeling.... No Cheating"
:-) :-)

فاوزيا ........ said...

do you enjoy knowing tht someone you love having an affair with many dude?........and to each of them she will said "I love you only" ... do you call this a good relationship and should be implemented ? ...

rohyna ahsan said...

hmm..well the term LOVE for me is a mystery..in itself 'coz i could never realize..whether did i ever fell in love.. ,coz i have cared about things..people..to the core of the heart..tho many at times mistaken 2 for ma immense care nature..but still couldn't figure out what is actually love..so..loving some1 n many at the same time..no comments..he he he..

sanju said...

luving in nt only the care or just sharing. When u r in luv u feel smthing different that make you feel that u r special. U actully start luving yourself but when you say that u luv two grls then u r nt in luv, u r just sharing urself and that is nt luv i say